What can capture the total attention
of eight adults for three days over the Thanksgiving break? It wasn’t a football team or book or
movie. It was two infants who couldn’t
even sit up by themselves.
For three days we held the new
babies, got them to laugh, watched them spit up, cry, sleep, and started it all
over again the next day. Of course,
while we slept, their moms got up with them at least three times during the
night. It’s amazing how eight adults can
suddenly have nothing to talk about but babies for three days – how they’ve
grown, are they hungry, tired, sleepy, what they need for Christmas – babies,
babies, babies. And we’re adults who one
year ago could only discuss jobs, politics, theology and education.
Two of my daughters-in-law had that
zonked out look of a new mom who hasn’t had more than four straight hours of
sleep in months. The young women
continually exchanged ideas with the third daughter-in-law whose baby is due in
March. The two new moms had so much to
share with the new mom to be, and I noticed the third daughter-in-law began to
look a little overwhelmed herself.
After holding my infant grandsons
for just a few hours, I again realized that babies are for strong young
women. I loved the time when my sons
were babies, but I’ll never forget how tired I always felt - so bone wearying,
would-do-anything-for-a-good-night-of-rest tired.
New moms need so much tender care themselves
as they care for their young children. Isaiah
40:11 says, “He shall feed His flock like a shepherd, He shall gather the lambs
with His arms, and carry them in His bosom.
And gently lead those that are
with young.” The NASB translates
that last phrase, “And gently leads the nursing ewes.”
Over Thanksgiving I saw how much
care new moms need. I’m so glad God led
Isaiah to include the extra reminder that the Good Shepherd takes special note
to gently lead those in his flock who have the wonderful, but sometimes
overwhelming task of taking care of young children.
So to my dear sweet daughters-in-law,
when you are feeling the mind numbing overpowering exhaustion that comes from
caring 24/7 for a young infant, know that God takes extraordinary care to
gently lead you during this time. You
are amazing young women, and you have a loving, understanding Shepherd watching
over you.
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